4Kids n Wellness

Hi Friends, let’s be real, parenting is hard, whether you’re juggling one kiddo or a whole squad of four like me, it’s a rollercoaster of emotions every day. I usually try to keep my cool when my kids are facing something scary or stressful. You know, that “lead by example” thing? I’m not a superhero at it, but I give it my best shot.

Well, today, I was put to the test. My 7-year-old had her tonsils and adenoids taken out. Now, in the run-up to her surgery, I was all Zen mode. Standard procedure, fantastic doctor, in and out in a jiffy. Even in the hospital as we waited for her to be wheeled into the operating room, I was mellow. My logical side was running the show – not a worry in the world.

Then came the moment they wheeled her into the operating room. Emotions hit me like a tidal wave. My anxiety is soaring. Suddenly, I’m starving but can’t fathom eating. I’m twitchy, annoyed by the hospital Wi-Fi (which, let’s be honest, moves at the speed of snail). I’m glued to the procedure board in the waiting room, clock-watching like my life depends on it. Why’s it taking the whole hour? Is something amiss? Cue my rational side saying, “Relax, they said an hour. All’s well.” But my emotions weren’t exactly on board.

So here I am, pouring my heart out to you all. Because let’s face it, parenting is like trying to solve a Rubik’s Cube blindfolded. We’re parents, but we’re still human with a one-way ticket to Emotionville.

Update: Before I could even hit “post,” I got news. She sailed through surgery with flying colors. My worrying? Turns out it was unnecessary baggage. Now my tears? They’re tears of pure relief. Today, my rational side gets a gold star.

Any of you been down this path? How’d you handle the rollercoaster? Share your wisdom below – I’m all ears!